Asian Heart Network (Reporter Guo Zhiyong) just over two months, 16-year-old Mei (pseudonym) 3 times away from home, because parents do not allow her love, she wanted to fight for their own room to grow, the Fourth People's Hospital, Urumqi psychiatrist that the confrontation between Xiaomei and parents, not only is the lack of recognition, the deepest roots in the Yu Xiaomei mother's native home.
daughter has not received any reply.
Xiaomei away in the day, her mother Ms. Wang has crumbled, day in tears, the first few days, Xiaomei also take her phone, her mother heard the crying, Xiaomei immediately hung off. Subsequently, Ms. Wang constantly send text messages, but her daughter never reply.
Wang told reporters that her daughter has always been well behaved,UGG Australia, but this year became very rebellious, she was in love recently, however, the boy, Ms. Wang and her husband was very offensive, in their view , the boy did not even complete a study, almost useless, the couple exchanges both firmly against her, turns her education, said she was now very small, should devote their time on their studies, but each time her discipline, her daughter's rebellious on the increased number of psychological, near her daughter ran away from home.
had to control her daughter, the couple broke her daughter's pocket money, that is, her daughter did not install a penny left home, allowing parents to worry about already, a month ago, his daughter while the family No one quietly Huile Tang family, took some clothes and went.
desperation, distraught mother came to Urumqi Fourth People's Hospital for psychological counseling. It is a subject of clinical psychological analysis of physician Wang Liping, the root of the problem in the mother.
Lord, but from her point of view to try to understand her daughter's feelings, and immediately the effect, over a text message immediately reply: home.
Last week, the mother and daughter came to the Fourth People's Hospital, Urumqi, Wang Liping,Moncler UK, the consultation confirmed the initial conclusion: the control over her mother, her daughter had a strong rebellion, Xiaomei from parents There can not get the understanding and warmth, and only get from a boyfriend, and parents of these factors Xiaomei fierce confrontation.
Xiaomei, the doctor said, Let me give her care was that they are incompetent, in front of her, I do not own space, and sometimes I really think she is my enemy. It seems that his life is not a happy marriage, not a happy childhood, she gave her all the hopes on their children, so many years, she has much energy on their own to take care of children, did not expect to pay so much, not only did not get her approval, but was hostile to her daughter.
introduced, according to Dr. Wang Liping, Wang and obstacles to parent-child relationship between her daughter from her original family.
human life generally have two families: one is the growth of their own native home, the other is the formation of adult his new family, native family values and lifestyles of each family member inscribed in the body, for their new home has a profound impact. Every person is inevitably marked by the imprint of their parents, and we again this imprint into their children's education and come.
original, Ms. Wang was very young grandmother was sent home until the teens before returning to my mother, my mother busy, rarely see her, even to leave a pile of toys is and snacks left. Ms. Wang will not swear that their children, be sure to love her, care for her, take care of her.
Wang treat her the way, a reflection of her inner pain, she could not really forgive her mother, so she and her mother decided to choose the opposite of education. She asked to be a hundred percent not so much their children love the perfect mother, but rather that she wants is to make up for their lack of childhood, she wanted to cure the pain of childhood.
She found that in the process of raising children, if children do not obey, her inner anxiety, shame you into the mood of frustration, anger,UGG Boot, therefore, she needs to meet with the child's inner sense of security control, not aware of the child's growth is the need to separate the space.
the adolescent parent-child relationship has not only exacerbated tensions between children and their parents, but also to the children about to enter adult intimate relationships difficult, but also to bring their own mother more serious anxiety.
by systematically consulting, Ms. Wang and her daughter conflict is alleviated, Xiaomei said: Related articles：
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